I have read and heard countless theories about this ever popular
topic...and finally there is a site that will allow people that we know to answer it. Us...
Us, of course being who ever chooses to have a voice and vote. So, ladies - whether or not you are one of those women that actually likes "bad boys" or not, I believe this can still be a unique opportunity to once and for all set the record straight and maybe, just maybe... we can all learn something from each other. Because the truth is, there just might be some valid psychological or behavioral reason why.
A few of the most common answers I've heard from women are:
"It's not that I like "bad boys," they're just more interesting."
"I would rather date a "bad boy" than a boring guy."
"Bad boys are a challenge."
So the one explanation we should all be able to agree on is that being a little unpredictable, adventurous, sarcastic and maybe even occasionally unaccommodating makes you a little more interesting, fun and hence attractive...and keeps girls on their toes.
Now, I'm not saying go and be a flat out jerk. I'm just saying be more open to the fact that the allure of "bad boys" and what you can learn from the notion of why some girls like them, might not be about game playing or even changing yourself. It might simply be about interpersonal communication and learning how to do it better. Because afterall, over 70% of all human communication is non-verbal, so it's not what you say, but what you do.
But, this is not about what I think...it's about what YOU think. So vote...and be heard!