How do you know when a girl likes you? I think the number one sign is when they want to spend time with you. Think about it. No one WANTS to spend time with someone they don’t like. That’s sign number one. Now, let’s say you work with this person so you two are forced to spend time with each other at work. Most women find that there is a stigma attached to messing around with coworkers. So, they usually don’t display any signs that they like you. In this case, you would have to cautiously make the first move and make sure you do it outside of the work place.
Then, you have the girl that you bump into at the same place all the time. This one is tricky because you need to find some reason to talk to her. Offer her gum or let her know if she drops something on the floor. Just talk normally like you already know her. That will help you be yourself and immediately break the ice. If she participates in this conversation then she is either just being nice or she is interested. But, if she continues the conversation then she might just like you. At this point keep talking as long as it feels natural and look for clues. If you don’t get any good clues then gradually end the conversation on a good note. This is the true test. If she sparks up another conversation either that day or another then you’re golden!
You should be able to apply these simple tips and hints to every situation. I’ve used them and they work most of the time. You have to understand that there are girls out there that you really like but they don’t like you. You have to choose from the one’s that actually like you. I wish I could tell you how to win over a girl but that’s pretty difficult and it involves a grand gesture. Which I think doesn’t work unless it’s in your personality to do grand gestures all the time. Leave comments on my profile page about this blog.